"Torn between two lovers" has nothing on torn between three daughters.....and the agonizing feeling one gets when one wants to be there for all. Wishing I could somehow make it happen....help/be with/console/advice/hold each one of them as they struggle to make it all happen........with their health, their children, their homes, their lives. Wishing or praying that they all lived closer will probably never happen.....one can only pray and wish! Juggling to see all of them and not hurt one or the other's feelings (& I don't know if this happens but...)can sometimes become overwhelming. Missing out on grandchildren's growth and not being able to celebrate their accomplishments is just plain SAD! So I try to make the best judgement and sometimes that works and sometimes it hurts. Torn....is all I can say!